True love for many people is a myth, an illusion, a chimera, a fantasy. Yes, true love is indeed a fantasy, a daydream, a dream come true between two people. However, there is no love in today's world, there are not many lovers. There are an awful lot of couples who are supposedly in love, but theirs is not love.
Too many people perceive love as a commitment, as a need as a necessity, even as a fad. They simply suffer from a desperate need for vital energy, for Life from Being, and they try to get it in every possible way...
For them, the partner in a relationship is the ideal donor, he is obliged to "love" them, to shower them with all his attention, care and time, to be constantly at their disposal and to give them absolutely no reason for jealousy.
This is tyranny, and when it is practiced on both sides, things become downright impossible. Scenes, pathological jealousy, outbursts of aggression, scandals and what not are an integral part of the life of these "lovers", what's more, for them it's everyday life. They obsess over each other, suffocate, chain each other and sooner or later separate, for them a relationship is a cage for two, but Love can never be a cage or a prison...
When a person truly loves, he becomes part of the Universe, the Universe itself, in the full sense of the word. His heart begins to beat with her pulse, his thoughts (if there are exceptions) begin to flow to her rhythm. For the first time, he is truly aware of the world he lives in, sees harmony and beauty, sees the blooming rose, hears the birdsong, admires the sunrise and sunset. For him, time has stopped and every moment is an eternity, a blissful eternity. A man in love is incredibly pure and beautiful, he shines, he shines. It literally shines and illuminates everything around it, it is light and free, liberated. His steps are light, his gait graceful.
He admires the whole world and the whole world admires him. Love flows through him and spreads everywhere he goes, on everything he touches. The lover feels the need to love, not to be loved, he does not obsess over his partner, does not chain him, but simply loves him. He doesn't feel the need to change it because it's pointless, he loves it as it is. There is no binding or limitation, but liberation, breaking the limitations, the boundaries. Lovers have wings and fly, gravity does not apply to them, they float in the skies with the birds and dance with the clouds, the clouds dance with them. They sing listening to the beautiful song of the universe, and it itself joins them.
True love is not a myth, it is neither the first, nor the fifth, nor the tenth, nor the last. It is always one, always new and always unique, in every single moment... One can touch it and experience it several times in a lifetime, even with more than one partner. At different times in your life, you may love different people, and love them truly. However, one should be happy if he touches Love even once in his life, even just for a moment. Because when a person loves, the moment turns into eternity, even just this single moment is enough to make sense of an entire human life...
True love is not a myth, it is not a fairy tale about an imaginary prince or princess, yes the prince and princess are fiction, but Love is reality. One just loves and that much, there are no conditions, no barriers, no restrictions. There isn't even a cause or effect. Love is just there, it is elusive, unpredictable, effortless, spontaneous, infinitely beautiful and liberating.
Love happens to you, you can't cause it, you just rejoice when it appears and sing the song of the universe and every living thing comes to you….
— Nekros
