Thursday, October 30, 2025

Sumitomo’s Strategic Consolidation in Malaysian Healthcare

Japan’s Sumitomo Corporation has emerged as one of the most influential foreign players in Malaysia’s private healthcare system through a rapid, data-driven consolidation strategy spanning patient access management, primary care delivery, and pharmaceutical distribution. The integration reflects a broader regional trend in which Japanese conglomerates deploy capital and digital infrastructure to capture downstream healthcare value chains in Southeast Asia.

1. Controlling Patient Access Through TPAs

Sumitomo’s healthcare expansion began in managed care administration. Its subsidiary PMCare, one of Malaysia’s largest third-party administrators (TPAs), manages medical benefits for major corporate and institutional clients. In June 2024, Sumitomo acquired 100% of CompuMed Sdn. Bhd., another leading Malaysian TPA with over 1.5 million registered members and a network exceeding 2,000 panel clinics nationwide (Sumitomo Corporation, 2024).

Through PMCare and CompuMed, Sumitomo now holds significant influence over corporate healthcare spending and patient flow. Collectively, both TPAs are estimated to oversee more than 40% of Malaysia’s managed care market, giving Sumitomo a controlling role in determining which clinics and providers employees can access under their health benefit programs (Ekuinas, 2018).

2. Expansion into Primary Care Delivery

Parallel to its TPA acquisitions, Sumitomo invested directly in clinical infrastructure via CareClinics Healthcare Services (CCHS). Initially operating 18 clinics in 2021, CCHS expanded to over 100 outlets nationwide as of March 2024, making it one of Malaysia’s largest private primary care networks (Sumitomo Corporation, 2024).

Sumitomo is now the largest shareholder of CCHS. The network operates under a standardized model emphasizing operational efficiency, uniform pricing, and centralized procurement. Each clinic is equipped with electronic medical records (EMR) linked to Sumitomo’s digital health infrastructure (Sumitomo Corporation, 2024).

3. Pharmaceutical and Distribution Leverage

While Sumitomo has not entered direct drug manufacturing, it has developed partnerships with Zuellig Pharma, one of Asia’s largest distributors, covering the logistics of select drugs such as meropenem (Sumitomo Dainippon Pharma, 2021).

Though its role here remains partnership-based, the collaboration allows Sumitomo to align clinic procurement with pharmaceutical distribution, reinforcing its vertically integrated model.

4. Building a Closed-Loop Healthcare Ecosystem

Sumitomo’s assets form a three-tiered structure:

(a) Patient Access – via TPAs (PMCare, CompuMed)
(b) Service Delivery – via CareClinics
(c) Pharmaceutical Logistics – via Zuellig Pharma partnerships

This configuration enables Sumitomo to guide patients from the TPA layer through affiliated clinics to controlled supply chains. Managed-care members comprise roughly 60% of Malaysia’s private clinic visitors, meaning Sumitomo’s system effectively captures the majority of patient flow (Ekuinas, 2018).

5. Quantitative Targets and Strategic Outcomes

According to a joint study with Roland Berger, Sumitomo’s healthcare arm targets a ¥30 billion (≈ RM1 billion) reduction in Malaysian healthcare costs by 2030 through predictive analytics and centralized procurement (Sumitomo Corporation, 2023).

The model adapts Sumitomo’s Japanese retail principles — standardized training, bulk purchasing, and data centralization — to healthcare operations. Internal projections indicate double-digit gains in patient throughput and procurement efficiency by 2025.

6. Market and Regulatory Implications

Sumitomo’s integration gives it unprecedented influence in Malaysia’s private healthcare sector. The dual control of patient access and service delivery provides pricing leverage and data dominance uncommon among local operators. As digital health records proliferate, regulators may need to address data governance, transparency, and competition within vertically integrated care systems.

7. Unverified Concerns: Zakat-Linked Procurement

Mid-2024 saw circulating claims that certain non-Muslim–owned healthcare firms received zakat-funded tenders. However, no official tender disclosures or zakat authority statements substantiate these claims. As of October 2025, there is no public evidence linking Sumitomo or its affiliates to any zakat-related procurement. Analysts emphasize the need for procurement transparency before drawing conclusions.

8. Outlook

Sumitomo’s Malaysian portfolio illustrates Japan’s evolving outbound healthcare investment model — merging efficiency, digitization, and scale. Whether this transformation brings cost savings or market concentration will depend on how regulators and competitors respond to this new, foreign-controlled ecosystem.


References

Ekuinas. (2018). Annual Report 2018. Ekuiti Nasional Berhad. Link

Ekuinas. (2019, April 3). Ekuinas divests entire equity interest in MediExpress and PMCare to Sumitomo Corporation. Link

Sumitomo Corporation. (2019, April 4). Investment in Malaysian Managed Care Service Companies. Link

Sumitomo Corporation. (2023, February 27). Sumitomo collaborates with Roland Berger to develop managed-care business in Malaysia. Link

Sumitomo Corporation. (2024, June 19). Acquisition of CompuMed Sdn. Bhd. Link

Sumitomo Corporation. (2024, May 15). Full-scale entry into private clinic business in fast-growing Southeast Asia. Link

Sumitomo Corporation. (2024, December). Becoming Malaysia’s Leading Clinic Network through Grassroots M&A. Link

Sumitomo Dainippon Pharma Co., Ltd. (2021, December 7). Establishment of Sumitomo Dainippon Pharma Malaysia Sdn. Bhd. Link

The Edge Malaysia. (2019, April 3). Ekuinas divests entire stake in MediExpress and PMCare. Link

Roland Berger. (2023). Joint initiative with Sumitomo Corporation to optimize managed care in Malaysia. Link

Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Another sleepless night

I tried to sleep. I practised numerous breathing techniques, but after forty-five minutes I still couldn’t fall asleep. It’s always you that my mind pictures. I can hear the melody of your voice. Sometimes I see you smile, sometimes laugh, and sometimes I see you with him. When my eyes grow teary, I wipe them two or three times. I don’t want to cry. I don’t want to feel sad. I want to let you go—I really do, sometimes. But I can’t. Not because I still have hope, but because I still love you. Love doesn’t fade just because we wish it to. I’m tired. After working non-stop for fourteen days, my body needs rest, but my mind refuses to slow down.


Tokyo, Japan
October 27, 2025

Tuesday, October 28, 2025

Sunday, October 26, 2025

Ukiyo

Today is 26 October 2025. The President of the United States has attended the ASEAN Summit in Kuala Lumpur. I am now in Hong Kong for a business trip. How are you, my dearest sweetheart? Were you remembering me so much that I could do nothing but think of you? I first wrote this letter on 22 May 2025. Eight years ago, on this very day, I received the most heart-wrenching news — that the love of my life would soon belong to someone else. I felt devastated, yet I pretended to be fine.

I didn’t want to be sad. I wanted to be happy, to let go of the past, to be ukiyo — detached, drifting freely through the currents of time. I tried, but it never worked. Perhaps I should have tried harder. In Letters to Milena, Franz Kafka wrote, “I’m tired, can’t think of anything, and want only to lay my face in your lap, feel your hand on my head, and remain like that through all eternity.” I miss you, yet you are nowhither to be found. Sometimes, this longing grows too heavy to bear.

I try not to think of you, but it always ends the same — it is you I end up thinking about. Last year, the time we had together felt ephemeral — gone in a heartbeat. It was as if life had only loaned me those moments, then reclaimed them before I could even say goodbye. When I later read that Skype would be shut down on May 5th, the news felt strangely symbolic — another door closing. The ache grew into headaches and a heaviness in my chest that no medicine could touch. I was exhausterwhelmulated. 

The Japanese have a phrase — ichi-go ichi-e (一期一会) — meaning that every encounter happens only once in a lifetime. It will never repeat. Perhaps that is why love, in its beauty, hurts so much: because its essence is impermanence. They also say, 人の心は川のように流れる — the human heart flows like a river. No moment, and no feeling, is ever the same twice. It is true — some relationships last, some disappear. But what once was can’t stay the same, no matter how much we wish it otherwise.

Marcus Aurelius reminded us, “Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together.” Mahmoud Darwish wrote words that still echo through me “We once said that only death would tear us apart. Death was late, and we split.” Jean de La Fontaine added gently, “Sadness flies away on the wings of time.” Yet even after a decade, nothing has truly changed. Poetry captures it perfectly “A thousand enemies cannot wound the heart as one lover does.”

A day has 86,400 seconds. One million seconds make 11.5 days. A billion seconds — 31.7 years. In Philosophy and Life, A.C. Grayling wrote, “Human lifespan is very brief; it is less than a thousand months long. A large part of it has gone even before we realize its brevity.” He also said, “How long you live is not measured by quantity but by quality.” And what greater quality is there than spending time thinking of you — all the quiet details of your days; the small, beautiful ordinaries that once felt like home. 

ada banyak jalan
dan setiap jalan punya penjuru
ada banyak kenangan
dan aku cuma mau
mengingatmu.

— Usman Arrumy

Saturday, October 25, 2025

My darling

Dearest my darling, darling,

di hari ia melahirkan cintanya
ia berkata kepada kekasihnya,
“kita tidak usah berjanji untuk setia,
kerana kita tidak mahu setia kerana janji.
kita akan setia kerana cinta,
hanya kerana cinta.”

di hari perkahwinannya
ia berkata kepada kekasihnya,
“perkahwinan ini adalah ikatan,
tapi kita tidak usah terikat kerananya.
kita terikat kerana cinta,
hanya kerana cinta.”

di hari-hari kemudiannya
ia berkata kepada dirinya,
“perkahwinan kadang-kadang 
mengajar kita melupakan cinta 
untuk belajar hidup bersama.”

— Zurinah Hassan

I reread your love letter on July 28, 2025, while we were on vacation. It was one of those quiet, tender moments we spent together. I know you’re not one for endless adventures, so I chose a slower holiday—not packed with plans, but rich with stillness. You were right when you said travelling can be exhausting, yet it gives us precious time to simply be. How was your day at home with our four little toddlers? Are they still as quick and mischievous as ninjas? Take your time to eat, enjoy your meals slowly, and 休む時間を取りなさい.

I wanted to send you a short message, but instead, I found myself writing this letter. This is actually the second time I’ve rewritten it. I often feel my writing isn’t good enough. I was trained to write technically, not emotionally but you always remind me that my words carry warmth. I stopped writing for years, then returned to journaling—to writing letters to you. It calms me. It helps me untangle the thoughts that never stop running through my mind. Writing makes me feel alive. It makes me pause for a moment, and then let myself bleed onto the page.

Today, I reread Satu Cerita Cinta by our National Laureate, Zurinah Hassan—again and again, as I often do. I keep returning to it, trying to feel every layer of its meaning. I was never drawn to women writers, but through our years together—besides music—you’ve opened a new door in literature for me. You used to say that I introduced you to good books, but truly, you also led me to profound readings that shaped my thinking. I’ve come to enjoy your kind of literature. There is no waste in exploring something new—it always builds a deeper understanding.

Between us, you’ve always had the stronger emotional intelligence. You’re mature enough to carry even the hardest conversations. You listen deeply, without judgment, and you think differently with a rare clarity that feels both kind and wise. I love you for that. Every conversation with you whether a passing thought or a long discussion has sharpened the way I think, making my mind more perspicacious. If there is one person I should thank for that, it is you. You illuminate the other side of the coin, helping me see what I might have missed. 

Leo Tolstoy once said, “Nothing is so necessary for a young man as the company of intelligent women.” And Buddha wrote in the Dhammapada “If you do not find an intelligent companion, a wise and well-behaved person going the same way as yourself, then go on your way alone—like a king abandoning a conquered kingdom, or like a great elephant in the deep forest.” Both remind me of you. Since young, I’ve admired intelligent women—they are, after all, the foundation of civilization. Marrying you has been one of the greatest blessings from Allah.

Love is not always beautiful. Sometimes we grow weary—of life, of routines, even of each other. We tend to wander, yet each time that happens and we choose to stay—that is love. Love isn’t about choosing someone only when it’s easy; it’s choosing them again and again, especially when life grows heavy, when emotions falter, when money is short, or when health wavers. Love isn’t always a magical world, as you often remind me, but I believe it is something far greater. It is strength disguised as tenderness. It carries us through every storm.

In marriage, we can’t always avoid difficult conversations; those we wish we never had to face. Not everyone can express what lives in their heart. It takes courage and maturity to do that. I’m not someone who opens up easily. I’ve always been taciturn. Not one to wear my heart on my sleeve, keeping most feelings to myself. When I’m angry, I often stay silent. I don’t want to deliver great invective in fury, so instead, I’ve punched mirrors. By doing that, I was trying to be more sangfroid—it calmed me in ways words never could.

Saidina Ali once said, “There will come a time when you realize that restraining your tongue to avoid offending someone is more noble than expressing what is in your heart.” Yet in marriage, this cannot always be applied in full. There are things we must speak of, however uncomfortable they may be. It takes courage, patience, and maturity to be honest about the heart. Sometimes, we stay silent because we don’t know what language could make others understand what we truly feel, or how to turn our silence into something they can perceive.

When I was a child, I met evil too soon. I saw and heard terrible things almost every night. I was helpless—covering my ears and closing my eyes, praying for it to stop. I wiped my tears and begged God for peace. That was my quiet trauma. I was taught never to speak out, not to “hurt” others’ feelings, to always obey. The place I grew up in was both a nightmare and a heaven, but I choose to remember the beautiful days and pretend the horrid trauma never existed. I couldn’t speak to anyone about it. I felt I shouldn’t.

The purpose of marriage is companionship: a mind beside a mind, a heart tied to a heart, a hand that heals, a soul that supports, and a presence that brings peace. Saidina Umar al-Khattab once said, “The greatest gift after faith is your wife.” Marriage is a long journey; we must take the bitter with the sweet. Sometimes we tire when our hearts run out of strength. That is when patience becomes love’s truest test. Saidina Ali ibn Abi Talib once said, “The best patience is the patience shown toward the shortcomings of the one you love.”

Many live in marriages that take away their very essence. But marriage should nurture growth—it should help us expand in thought, in faith, and in the fullness of being. It may take years to build, but deep down, we always know whether we are growing or shrinking. A person raised in love and one raised in survival will always see the world differently. Yet through our differences, we’ve learned to exchange ideas and understand each other. The boundary between us is that we always agree to disagree. That, I believe, is the most beautiful part of us.

You never saw love the way I do. You’re a realist—a woman who moves forward quickly and never builds her home in nostalgia. I’ve always seen you as strong and capable of anything, yet once you chose a man, you let him lead and guide you with grace. You listened to my advice, devoted yourself to me, and made me feel like a king in his own kingdom. You always wanted me by your side, never letting me out of your sight for even a moment. Finding you has been one of life’s greatest honours—for you were, and always will be, the closest to my soul.

From my soul to your soul,
Abang

October 25, 2025 / 1:44 am
Hong Kong

Friday, October 24, 2025

Hehe

"👗👍@👎"
"👙💦🔥"
"🙄"
"👀"
"🌶"
"👶👶👶👶👶👶"
"😱"
"😁"
"🤔"
"🏃🏃🏃🏃"
"🙅"
"😋😍"


23-10-2025

Thursday, October 23, 2025

Cerita dari Facebook

Yeke..sy mgharap husb nak setiap hari..sy terasa kalau husb xnak..bila nak tu sy rasa di hargai..tapi husb pndai kawal nfsu..dia xnk nmpk mcm pmpn lain cop..asyik yg tuuu jeee..tapi sy xd pun nk fikir cam tu..tp xpelah..sy bila2 dia nak pun sy sudi bg.tp dia pndai kawal nfsu..hahaha..jd xpelah.jnji bukan sy yg xnk bg.xde la sy brdosa kn..😂

(Facebook)

_

"Siapa tu, Ra?"
"Komen nurtizen. Dia reply sebab laki situ cakap tak normal kalau suami tak minta hari-hari. Laki situ semua cakap nak hari-hari"
"Oooo"
"And semua pakat suruh poligami. Ada wife cakap nak tip top aje tapi terkulai separuh jalan. Semua bini makan hati. Tapi kan komen tu takde laki reply"
"Kerja apa dia orang tu? Laki T20 jarang bising pasal seks. Ada tapi susah dengar"
"Entahlah, bang. Komen memasing salahkan wife aje"
"Kita ni Ara, ada jalan halal ada jalan haram. Yang haram, makan luar. Yang halal, poligami. Tapi kalau poligami, duit tak cukup - nak main pun tak ada mood. Nak ada mood, tak boleh ada gangguan / masalah. Kalau tak, otak tak boleh fokus. Kalau isteri tak nak maksudnya otak dia tengah serabut fikir benda lain. Duit dapur tak cukup ke, letih jaga anak ke, terasa hati ke, suami layu di tengah jalan ke. Apa-apa la. Kalau suami dah perbetulkan semua tapi isteri tak nak juga barulah kawin 2,3,4. Selesaikan masalah dalam rumah dulu. Perempuan, bila dia bahagia dengan suami jarang tolak ajakkan. Dia faham dosa pahala. Imam kena betul baru makmum ikut. Abang selalu usik member kawin banyak - siapa mintak dulu. Ada bini tapi bini tak pernah minta tak hero la. Nak jadi king macam mana"
"Senanya kita teringat abang cerita wife yang nak tiap hari"
"Ha yang laki lari tak nak balik rumah tu"
"Ha'a"

Meroyan

"Abang…"
"Dah okey sikit dah"
"Kita kan nak minta maaf. Kita acam mmm salah sangka dengan abang"
"…………"
"Kita acam marah abang ambil ramai sangat pembantu…jaga kembar…kemas rumah…masak mmm"
"Hal tu dah settle, kan?"
"Senanya…abang tak nak kita burnout. Abang tahu kita tak boleh stay up astu cepat letih astu cepat mengantuk. Kita kan tidur awal. Tapi kita salah faham. Kita anggap abang cakap kita tak mampu jaga kembar. Kita nak buktikan kita mampu mmm"
"Dahlah. Benda dah lepas. Ara dah faham kan"
"Ri ni ada kes retis penat jaga anak. Dia acam meroyan tak cukup tidur. Tidur 2 jam aje. Kita teringat…kita tak bersyukur…suami kita siang malam jaga anak sediakan semua astu kita ajak gaduh…acam calon neraka, kan…"
"Apa cakap macam tu. Tak baik la"
"Mmm…down jab"
"Ara…penat jaga anak semua orang rasa tambah bila kita gaduh anak meragam 24 jam. Macam abang hari tu meroyan la jugak kot - tahun lepas. Benda biasa je. Bila masing-masing penat emosi mula la serba-serbi tak kena. Benda kecik pun jadi besar. Sampai sekarang abang terkilan marah Luqman. Dia bukan tahu apa. Dahlah dia tak nak dengan abang sebab selalu kena tinggal. Bila jaga, kena marah pulak"
"Sorry…salah kita…"
"Taklah. Salah abang"


Panggilan telefon
23-10-2025


Susah cakap

When your partner teaches you something new, it creates a connection that goes beyond physical or emotional attraction. It’s a kind of intimacy built on curiosity, respect, and growth.

Sharing knowledge becomes a way of nurturing each other, and that mutual learning strengthens the bond in ways surface-level relationships never can.

(Facebook)

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"Kita baca astu semestinya ingat abang. Mekasih tau rajin hantar kita esei astu peta minda astu macam-macam"
"Ha"
"Pengetua kan tanya suami kerja apa"
"Kenapa pengetua tanya?"
"Kita share abang tulis pasal kes dekat sekolah. Panjang tau dia respons"
"Ha? Kenapa Ara share? Adoi. Benda merepek je tu"
"Semua abang tulis kita share. Kita acam ase kita perlu share supaya ramai dapat manfaat"
"Ra, padam la"
"Kita senanya nak tulis laki kita tak reti bazir masa. Main game pun dia tak tahu. Aktiviti dia manfaat aje macam lelaki bosan tak reti have fun hihihi"
"Ey Hartamas. Panggang atas api nak?"
"Jangan marah bang nanti kena jual"
"Malu la Ara letak semua tu. Abang bukannya pandai. Abang tulis untuk catatan je sebab abang suka menulis"
"Abang jugak cakap kalau bukan suami handsome yang mencerdikkan isteri siapa lagi haaaa"
"Suami bagi isteri je. Yang isteri letak dekat FB buat apa haaaa"
"Takde isu sulit tak salah pun. Laki kita cakap sebarkanlah walau satu ayat. Lupa ek"
"Susah cakap dengan peguam"


Panggilan telefon
22-10-2025

Hmm…

I didn’t send the random text. To be honest, saying that this is not a passionate love might sound too brutally honest and could make her sad, or worse, be misunderstood. I like this kind of love. With Ara, I feel more stable, mature, and calm, and I can say anything. I can be vulnerable. I am not afraid that she will judge me. I am not afraid of anything—perhaps because I know she admires and loves me deeply. I never take that for granted. I always try to make her world a little better each day. I should rewrite a few sentences. It’s 3:44 a.m. I should rest. I’ve had chest pain since the evening.
_

Thank you for being my best friend and a wonderful wife. 

A marriage without friendship cannot last long. Ours may not be the kind of passionate love that many dream of, but being with you has made me a man I can truly be proud of.

Thank you, my dearest darling, for seven beautiful years together. 

Shanghai, China
22 October 2025

Tuesday, October 21, 2025

Food

Do not waste your food. Finish it, even if it isn’t to your taste, as long as it can still nourish you. Be grateful for what is on your table, and teach your children to appreciate every meal. Behind every grain of rice and every slice of bread lies the unseen labour of countless hands especially the farmers who toil under the sun and rain so that we may eat. Even wealth cannot feed a hungry soul. Money is only paper when there is no food to buy. I have been following the situation in Haiti, a country now facing one of its worst hunger crises in recent years. 

As of 2024, the IPC reports that more than half the population around 5.7 million people are experiencing acute food insecurity, especially in remote areas. It was during a similar crisis in 2008 that the world first learned of galette de boue; mud cookies made from dirt, salt, oil, and water, left to dry under the merciless sun. These were never food by choice, but by desperation, a fragile means to quiet the pain of hunger when real food was out of reach. Let us be thankful that our children do not have to endure such heartbreak just to silence their hunger.


Ho Chi Minh, Vietnam
October 21, 2025

Angkat tiang

"Abang busy?"
"Angkat tiang. Kenapa, Ra?"
"Abang angkat?"
"Ha. Kandar atas bahu"
"Mesin rosak ke?"
"Tak"
"Astu?"
"Mengenang zaman silam. Ara okey? Kembar buat hal? Stres?"
"Alaaa lupa. Kita nak cakap something"
"Dah makan?"
"Noodle hihi"
"Kejab lagi abang call. Membanting tulang, mengerah keringat"
"Hati-hati tau"
"Ha"


Panggilan telefon
20/10

Monday, October 20, 2025

Hydration



Cellular Hydration: The Biochemical Foundations of Water, Electrolytes, and Mineral Salts in Intracellular Homeostasis


Abstract

Hydration, in its physiological essence, transcends mere fluid intake and is fundamentally defined by the maintenance of intracellular water balance. While total body water constitutes approximately 60–70% of human body mass, the functional compartmentalization of this water—particularly within the intracellular space—is critically dependent on electrolyte-mediated osmotic gradients. This review elucidates the biochemical and biophysical mechanisms governing cellular hydration, emphasizing the indispensable role of electrolytes and mineral salts in facilitating water transport across semi-permeable membranes. We further examine the limitations of hypotonic fluid consumption in the absence of electrolyte co-administration and discuss the clinical and physiological implications of cellular dehydration, distinct from systemic fluid depletion. Evidence from oral rehydration science and ion transport physiology underscores the necessity of a balanced electrolyte–water paradigm for optimal cellular function.

1. Introduction

The colloquial understanding of hydration often equates fluid consumption with physiological sufficiency. However, from a biochemical standpoint, effective hydration is contingent upon the regulated distribution of water across cellular compartments, governed by osmotic and electrochemical gradients. Intracellular water serves as the medium for enzymatic catalysis, macromolecular stability, and bioelectrical signaling; its maintenance is therefore central to cellular viability. This paper synthesizes current understanding of the molecular mechanisms that regulate cellular hydration, with particular emphasis on the roles of sodium (Na⁺), potassium (K⁺), magnesium (Mg²⁺), chloride (Cl⁻), and trace mineral salts.

2. Compartmentalization of Body Water and Osmotic Regulation

Total body water is distributed between intracellular fluid (ICF; ~40% of body weight) and extracellular fluid (ECF; ~20%), the latter comprising plasma and interstitial fluid. The movement of water between these compartments is governed by osmotic pressure, defined by the relative concentrations of solutes—primarily electrolytes—on either side of cell membranes. Plasma osmolality, typically maintained within 280–295 mOsm/kg H₂O, is sensed by hypothalamic osmoreceptors, which modulate antidiuretic hormone (ADH) release and renal water excretion to preserve homeostasis (Verbalis, 2006).

Ingestion of hypotonic fluids (e.g., plain water) transiently lowers plasma osmolality, facilitating a short-lived osmotic influx of water into cells. However, the body rapidly restores osmotic equilibrium through renal excretion and suppression of ADH release. Without concurrent electrolyte intake, this process leads to poor retention of intracellular water. Thus, while hypotonic fluids can momentarily hydrate cells, sustained cellular hydration requires electrolytes to stabilize osmotic gradients and prevent compensatory diuresis (Montain et al., 2006; Verbalis, 2006).

3. Electrolytes as Determinants of Cellular Water Uptake

The Na⁺/K⁺-ATPase pump is the cornerstone of cellular ion homeostasis, actively extruding three Na⁺ ions in exchange for two K⁺ ions per ATP hydrolyzed. This establishes a transmembrane electrochemical gradient: high extracellular Na⁺ and high intracellular K⁺. The resulting osmotic differential drives passive water influx through aquaporin channels (AQP1, AQP4, etc.), facilitating cellular hydration (King et al., 2004).

Disruption of this ionic gradient—due to electrolyte deficiency, excessive water intake, or impaired pump activity—compromises cellular water retention, leading to a state of cellular dehydration. Clinically, this manifests as fatigue, cognitive fog, muscle cramps, and dysregulated thirst, despite normovolemia or even hypervolemia. Notably, chronic cellular dehydration may persist undetected in individuals with high water but low electrolyte intake.

4. The Role of Unrefined Mineral Salts

Refined sodium chloride (table salt) supplies Na⁺ and Cl⁻ but lacks the array of trace elements found in unrefined salts such as Celtic sea salt or Himalayan pink salt. These natural salts contain small yet physiologically relevant quantities of Mg²⁺, Ca²⁺, K⁺, and other trace minerals that may contribute marginally to overall electrolyte balance and membrane stability (Mahan & Raymond, 2017). Nevertheless, their mineral concentrations are too low to serve as therapeutic electrolyte sources in deficiency states. Their principal value lies in supporting routine dietary intake and maintaining a diverse mineral profile rather than correcting acute imbalances (Barbagallo & Dominguez, 2015).

Magnesium, in particular, serves as a cofactor for Na⁺/K⁺-ATPase activity; its deficiency impairs pump efficiency and exacerbates cellular dehydration. Thus, the inclusion of mineral-rich salts in dietary or supplemental hydration strategies may support sustained intracellular water balance.

5. Clinical and Physiological Implications: Beyond Volume Replacement

The World Health Organization’s Oral Rehydration Therapy (ORT) protocol exemplifies the principle that optimal hydration requires co-transport of water with electrolytes and a small amount of glucose. The sodium–glucose cotransporter (SGLT1) in the intestinal epithelium facilitates Na⁺ absorption, which in turn drives osmotic water uptake—a mechanism far more efficient than water absorption alone (Binder et al., 2014).

In athletic, clinical, or environmental contexts involving fluid loss (e.g., sweating, fever, fasting), electrolyte-replete rehydration prevents both systemic dehydration and intracellular hypo-osmolality. Conversely, excessive consumption of electrolyte-free water can precipitate dilutional hyponatremia, a potentially life-threatening condition characterized by cerebral edema, seizures, and impaired neuromuscular function (Hew-Butler et al., 2015).

6. Conclusion

True physiological hydration is not a function of fluid volume alone but of ionic orchestration. Water serves as the solvent of life, yet its intracellular localization and retention are architecturally directed by electrolytes. The Na⁺/K⁺ gradient, maintained through active transport and supported by trace minerals, establishes the osmotic framework for cellular hydration. Therefore, a paradigm shift is warranted—from viewing hydration as a quantitative metric to recognizing it as a dynamic, conductivity-dependent process. Future research should further quantify the contribution of dietary mineral salts to electrolyte homeostasis and refine personalized hydration strategies based on cellular, rather than systemic, metrics.


References

Barbagallo, M., & Dominguez, L. J. (2015). Magnesium and aging. Current Pharmaceutical Design, 21(24), 3511–3519.

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"Nampakkkkk hahahahaha"
"Suka dia"
"Ada laki lain cakap. Tak payah corner baring, corner menirap"
"Abang jugak cakap tak semua"
"Laki jenis oportunis. Dah tahu tunang orang, yang tu jugak nak try. Macam tak ada perempuan lain. Yang perempuan pun dah tahu ada tunang, layan jugak. Laki biasa la, lagi hak orang lagi nak tunjuk effort. Dah perempuan pun mengaku sendiri non stop kejar I, cara dia jaga I, talking about our future. Ayat masa depan memang kena jual. Perempuan dengar terus cair. Orang lama kata, perempuan kena pilih lelaki yang sayang dia lebih, jangan pilih laki yang dia sayang. Dia sedar je hati dah pilih nombor dua tapi nak cari alasan"
"Tersakiti ke bang hihihi?"
"Kita manusia. Ada hari reda, ada hari marah, ada hari sedih. Tapi berbalik kepada Qadrullahi wa ma sha’a fa‘ala. It is the decree of Allah, and He does whatever He wills. *Ada cinta yang Tuhan cipta hanya untuk menguji keikhlasan, sejauh mana hati mampu mencintai tanpa memiliki. Kerana tak semua kisah ditulis untuk berakhir dengan pertemuan, ada yang ditulis untuk kita belajar tentang reda, tentang menerima takdir"
"Betul sangat"
"Kelebihan yang Allah bagi pada perempuan, dia boleh belajar mencintai. Dari tak sayang, tengok effort lama-lama jadi sayang. Laki tak macam tu. Dari awal tak sayang, sampai ke sudah tak sayang"
"Astu sayang kita tak?"
"I sayang you sorang je. Sumpah! I tak ada yang lain. Hati I untuk you je hahahahahahahaha"
"Lucu hihihi"
"Tak boleh la abang. Geli hahahaha"
_

"Most women only leave when they already have someone else. They don’t walk away empty-handed. There’s usually someone waiting for them in the chat. Loyalty is tested the moment a better option appears"
"No, abang. You're biased. Not everyone leaves because someone else is waiting. Sometimes, it’s because something inside them has died"
"Okay. You win"
_

"Kesian jadi laki. Ramai perempuan pilih sebab effort. Bermaksud, kalau bukan sebab effort tak di pilih. Laki buta-buta percaya perempuan sayang dia padahal dalam hati sayang orang lain"
"Kita rasa sama aje"
"Lain. Kalau sayang, tak tengok effort bagai terima je sebab sayang. Kalau terima sebab effort, sayang sebab effort bukan sebab betul sayang"
"Complicated betul minda dia"
"Ha mengata abang"


Panggilan telefon
20/10

Redefining Adolescence



Redefining Adolescence: Neurodevelopmental and Sociological Evidence for Extending the Framework to Ages 10–24

Abstract

Background: The World Health Organization’s conventional definition of adolescence (10–19 years) was established for demographic convenience rather than developmental accuracy. Recent neuroimaging and sociological evidence demonstrate that maturation continues into the mid-twenties, prompting calls to expand the framework to ages 10–24.

Methods: This narrative review integrates longitudinal MRI and diffusion-tensor-imaging data on cortical maturation with demographic datasets from the OECD and Pew Research Center examining delayed social transitions.

Findings: Neurodevelopmental studies reveal continued synaptic pruning, myelination, and prefrontal–limbic refinement up to approximately age 25. These biological processes parallel sociological shifts, including later completion of education, postponed financial independence, and delayed family formation. Collectively, they depict adolescence as a gradual continuum rather than a fixed stage.

Interpretation: Re-conceptualising adolescence as spanning ages 10–24 aligns biological and social evidence. Policy frameworks reflecting this continuum could strengthen the delivery of mental-health, sexual-health, and preventive services, improving developmental continuity worldwide.

1. Background

The notion of adolescence as the decade between childhood and adulthood has long served administrative convenience more than scientific precision. The World Health Organization (WHO) has retained the 10–19 year definition for more than four decades, guiding global surveillance and service planning. Yet research in developmental neuroscience, psychiatry, and sociology increasingly shows that both biological maturation and social transitions extend well beyond the teenage years.

Adolescence today unfolds within markedly different temporal and social conditions from those of the mid-twentieth century. Education lasts longer, entry into stable employment is delayed, and the formation of long-term partnerships or parenthood now typically occurs several years later. Parallel to these social shifts, neuroimaging demonstrates protracted brain maturation into the third decade of life. These converging patterns have prompted several scholars, notably Sawyer et al. (2018), to propose redefining adolescence as ages 10–24. The argument rests on evidence that biological, psychological, and social transitions are synchronised over a longer trajectory than previously recognised.

2. Neurodevelopment Beyond the Teenage Years

2.1 Cortical maturation and white-matter growth

Magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) studies show that grey-matter volume follows a non-linear trajectory: it peaks in mid-adolescence and declines through synaptic pruning, a process refining neural efficiency ¹. White-matter volume, reflecting myelination, increases into the mid-twenties ². Diffusion-tensor-imaging (DTI) confirms progressive enhancement of axonal integrity and connectivity between frontal and subcortical regions ³. This continued myelination strengthens cognitive control and emotional regulation.

The prefrontal cortex, essential for planning, impulse inhibition, and risk evaluation, matures last among cortical regions ² ³. Functional MRI data reveal that connectivity between prefrontal and limbic circuits continues to strengthen into the mid-twenties, improving coordination between affective drives and executive oversight ⁴. Behaviourally, these neural refinements correspond with declines in impulsivity, greater foresight, and improved socio-emotional judgment.

2.2 Risk behaviour and cognitive control

Adolescent risk-taking has often been attributed to an imbalance between subcortical reward circuits and the gradually maturing prefrontal control network ⁵. During late adolescence and early adulthood, integration between these systems enhances the capacity to evaluate long-term outcomes. Steinberg’s social-neuroscience model situates this process as the biological substrate for the gradual shift from sensation seeking to self-regulation ⁴.

Importantly, these trajectories differ slightly between sexes: females typically achieve peak cortical thickness earlier, while males show prolonged white-matter growth ⁶. Such variation underscores that “completion” of adolescence cannot be demarcated by a single chronological age.

2.3 Developmental plasticity and mental health

Prolonged cortical plasticity into the twenties offers both opportunity and vulnerability. This period coincides with the peak onset of mental disorders, including depression and anxiety, suggesting a developmental window when targeted intervention could yield lifelong benefit. Recognising the neurobiological continuity of adolescence therefore supports extending youth mental-health services beyond age 19.

3. Sociological Transitions and the Concept of Emerging Adulthood

3.1 Delayed life milestones

Socio-economic transformations have reconfigured the pathway from dependence to adulthood. OECD data show the median age of completing full-time education has risen by three to five years since the 1970s ⁷. Pew Research (2021) reports that more young adults in their early twenties now live with parents than at any point since the 1940s ⁸. The median age for first marriage and first childbirth has similarly increased across both high- and middle-income nations.

These demographic shifts do not necessarily reflect immaturity or regression. Rather, they correspond to prolonged investment in education, unstable labour markets, and redefined markers of success. The developmental timetable of modern societies has expanded, mirroring the biological evidence of extended maturation.

3.2 Emerging adulthood as a developmental phase

Arnett’s theory of “emerging adulthood” (2000) frames the late-teens through twenties as a distinct stage characterised by identity exploration, self-focus, and transitional instability ⁹. Individuals in this phase oscillate between dependence and autonomy while experimenting with roles, relationships, and worldviews. Such psychosocial fluidity aligns with the brain’s continued capacity for learning and adaptation.

This re-conceptualisation dissolves the rigid binary between adolescence and adulthood. Instead of an abrupt threshold, maturation is understood as a continuum shaped by economic structures, cultural expectations, and neurobiological timing. Recognising this continuum has practical implications: education systems, health services, and legal frameworks must adapt to developmental diversity rather than enforce uniform age boundaries.

3.3 Global considerations

While much evidence derives from high-income contexts, parallel trends emerge globally. Middle-income nations such as Malaysia, Brazil, and South Africa report similar delays in educational completion and labour-market entry. Cultural differences influence the visibility of these shifts, but the direction remains consistent: young people worldwide transition to adult roles later than previous generations. This universality strengthens the case for adopting a broader developmental framework.

4. Policy and Definition Debate

4.1 Institutional inertia and definitional lag

In The Lancet Child & Adolescent Health, Sawyer et al. (2018) formally proposed redefining adolescence as 10–24 years. The WHO, however, has yet to revise its global classification, citing the importance of comparability with long-term epidemiological datasets. Such institutional inertia reflects a tension between scientific accuracy and administrative continuity. Redefining age categories affects health-service planning, legal thresholds, and global reporting systems—domains that change slowly even in the face of compelling evidence.

4.2 National adaptations

Several national bodies have nonetheless adopted the expanded framework. The Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health (UK) now defines adolescent health as extending to age 24, while Australia and New Zealand have integrated similar parameters into youth-health policy. These precedents illustrate that policy modernisation is feasible and beneficial when evidence supports it.

4.3 Health-system implications

Reframing adolescence has direct consequences for service design. Extending adolescent clinics and preventive programmes into the mid-twenties could enhance continuity for conditions such as eating disorders, substance use, and sexual-health risk. Transitional services bridging paediatric and adult care—particularly in mental health—would better match developmental needs.

In education and employment, recognising prolonged cognitive and psychosocial development could justify reforms in tertiary student support, vocational training, and youth employment policies. Legal systems might also reconsider age-related thresholds, aligning responsibility with developmental maturity rather than rigid chronology.

5. Integrating Biological and Social Evidence

The convergence of neurodevelopmental and sociological data presents a cohesive model of extended adolescence. Neural circuits governing executive control mature gradually, providing the substrate for complex decision-making and social responsibility. Simultaneously, societal structures delay the acquisition of stable adult roles. The overlap of these trajectories produces a prolonged transition period—an adaptive, not pathological, feature of modern development.

From a biopsychosocial standpoint, adolescence represents an evolving interplay between organism and environment. Biological maturation enables increasing autonomy, while sociocultural context determines when and how that autonomy is expressed. Thus, the endpoint of adolescence cannot be universally fixed; it is contingent on both neural development and societal opportunity.

6. Limitations of Current Evidence

The majority of neuroimaging studies originate from Western, high-income settings with small, homogeneous samples. Cross-cultural variability in diet, education, and social expectation may influence developmental timing. Similarly, demographic datasets often lack representation from low-income countries, where early marriage and labour participation may compress the adolescent period.

Longitudinal, cross-cultural imaging cohorts are needed to determine whether extended maturation is universal or context-specific. Furthermore, most studies employ cross-sectional designs, limiting causal inference. Integrating biological and sociological data within the same populations would refine the empirical basis for global policy change.

7. Implications for Global Health Policy

Re-conceptualising adolescence as 10–24 years carries major implications for health governance and resource allocation. Adolescent-specific strategies should encompass mental-health promotion, sexual-reproductive education, and substance-use prevention throughout the extended period of neuroplasticity.

WHO and UNICEF frameworks could adopt a tiered model distinguishing early adolescence (10–14), middle adolescence (15–19), and late adolescence/emerging adulthood (20–24). Such granularity would preserve comparability with existing categories while acknowledging developmental reality.

Public-health messaging and educational curricula could emphasise gradual responsibility acquisition rather than abrupt transition. In lower-income regions, policies must also account for socioeconomic constraints that force premature adult roles, ensuring that redefinition does not marginalise those unable to prolong education or dependence.

8. Conceptual Model

A unified developmental model can be visualised as overlapping biological and sociological timelines. Neural maturation (synaptic pruning, myelination, executive-function growth) extends approximately from ages 10 to 25. Sociological milestones (education completion, financial independence, partnership formation) have similarly shifted upward. The intersection of these trajectories defines a contemporary “extended adolescence,” bridging traditional adolescence and early adulthood.

Such a diagram would depict two ascending curves—one biological, one sociological—converging in the mid-twenties, symbolising synchrony between brain development and life-course progression.

9. Conclusion

Adolescence is no longer confined to the teenage years. Neuroimaging and sociological evidence converge to depict a prolonged, dynamic period of growth extending into the mid-twenties. Recognising this continuum offers a more accurate foundation for policy, education, and health service delivery.

Extending the definition of adolescence to ages 10–24 harmonises scientific understanding with lived reality. It situates young people within a developmental spectrum that acknowledges ongoing neural refinement, psychosocial exploration, and societal transformation. Updating global frameworks to reflect this evidence would enhance health equity, promote developmental continuity, and ensure that the science of human maturation informs—not follows—policy.


References

Giedd JN, Blumenthal J, Jeffries NO et al. Brain development during childhood and adolescence: a longitudinal MRI study. Nat Neurosci 1999; 2(10):861–863.

Paus T. Growth of white matter in the adolescent brain: myelin or axon? Horm Behav 2013; 63(3):198–207.

Kolk SM, Rakic P. Development of prefrontal cortical connectivity and function: implications for adolescent behaviour. Front Hum Neurosci 2022; 16:841416.

Steinberg L. A social neuroscience perspective on adolescent risk-taking. Dev Rev 2010; 28(1):78–106.

Romer D, Reyna VF. Risk taking in adolescence: a social neuroscience perspective. Dev Rev 2017; 44:1–44.

Lenroot RK, Giedd JN. Sex differences in the adolescent brain. Brain Cogn 2010; 72(1):46–55.

OECD. Society at a Glance 2022: OECD Social Indicators. Paris: OECD Publishing; 2022.

Pew Research Center. Young Adults Living with Parents Reached Record Levels in 2021. Washington DC: Pew; 2021.

Arnett JJ. Emerging adulthood: a theory of development from the late teens through the twenties. Am Psychol 2000; 55(5):469–480.

Sawyer SM, Azzopardi PS, Wickremarathne D, Patton GC. The age of adolescence. Lancet Child Adolesc Health 2018; 2(3):223–228.


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Bual santai

"Abang kalau boleh nak guna bata merah tapi memang tak boleh kalau low cost. Bata kita boleh beli, nak plaster makan modal. Kerja renyah. Lambat"
"Banyak aje kita tengok rumah mahal guna bata putih. Banyak dia orang untung"
"Rumah 400 ribu, modal kadang tak sampai 100 ribu pun. Barang tak beli hardware. Order kilang. Contoh kita beli hardware simen 1 paket RM 23, kilang tolak tak sampai RM 10. Tu baru simen. Batu cari kuari. Beli besi dekat kilang tak habis guna. Kadang untung satu projek boleh tapau barang modal untuk next projek"
"Astu kalau untung kenapa jual mahal? Harga acam tak masuk akal"
"Yela, dah harga tanah mahal. Kos bina rumah tak mahal mana. Tanah sekaki dah berapa sekarang. Pecah lot individu nak bayar dekat Pejabat Tanah pun dah puluh ribu belum campur birokrasi nak cop itu ini. Masa kita buat pelan, sebelum summit kena cop. Cop tu harga RM 3,500, swasta. Naik office kena tendang, ulang buat lagi, cop lagi. Keluar lagi RM 3,500 sampai lulus. Tu baru satu cop. Hantar pulak pelan rumah, sekali buat dalam RM 700 harga zaman dulu. Majlis tolak, buat lagi. Kadang buat pelan sampai puluh ribu"
"Ha'aaaaaa la. Tak terfikir"
"Kalau syarikat kecik, Melayu pulak mana nak dapat harga murah macam Cina dapat. Bukan senang nak dapat line, deal direct kilang. Nak dapat simen bawah RM 10 kena baling duit dekat kilang RM 650,000 macam cagaran"
"La ye ke?"
"Ha. Bukan senang nak dapat. Kadang kena cari orang adjust. Tu kedai buku kesayangan Ara tu, kalau tak ada introducer jangan mimpi publisher senang-senang dapat masuk situ"
"Sama aje la"
"Standard je tu. Banyak company buat. Kita nak yang trusted. Tak nak deal dengan mana-mana orang yang kita tak kenal"


13/10

Fikir jauh

"Ni nota 25/4 hari tu. Abang kemas kini. Dari pukul orang, baik fikir benda lain"
"Still tak okey?"
"Belum tapi dah makan ubat. Light workout 15 minit lepas tu sambung balik. Tadi abang baca puisi"
"Best baca layout. Kita yang excited hihihi. Neurodivergent tu kita acam blur tak faham"
"Kalau budak autisme, ada sesetengah corak terutama jubin tak sesuai. Otak dia mudah trigger. Jadi kalau buat kita tanya dulu. Tapi ni untuk rumah persendirian. Kalau kita buat perumahan, kena lebih berhati-hati dalam pemilihan"
"Sampai situ abang fikir. Jauh nau"
"Tak la. Dekat je"
"Babtu ke rumah baru takde tiles?"
"Taklah. Tu developer nak untung lebih"


13/10

Kisah perempuan

"Memang la dia nak beranak 7,8 orang. Dia tahu laki dia banyak duit"
"Acam tu aje teori abang"
"Yela. Mana ada perempuan nak dambakan diri pada laki miskin kecuali zaman Nabi. Nak kepit perempuan, poket kena kencang. Laki pun tahu perempuan nak dia sebab duit"
"Astu pelik anak tak percaya perempuan kan"
"Hahahahaha tu abang tak ajar"


Panggilan telefon
17/10/2025

Nafsu tapi halal

"Dia 75, bini 30. Yang satu lagi 84 bini 34 kot"
"Ada anak?"
"Berderet"
"Tak geli ke ek?"
"Kalau boleh nak 18. Ketat lagi"
"Astaga. Badan dah bau tanah"
"Nafsu kuda hahahaha"
"Kuda tua buat apa. Lemah gemalai aje"
"Janji tangan boleh merayap merasai kenikmatan donia hahahahahaha"
"Eeeeeeee geli la"


Panggilan telefon
17/10/2025

Merajuk

"Nak bermadu dengan Kajang eh?"
"Tak nak"
"Habis tu tanya je"
"Tanya pun marah. Kenapa mara-mara kita"
"Melainkan Ara nak bermadu, soalan tu valid. Kalau tak, buang masa je tanya"
"Dah ada Kajang buat apa kita. Abang kan sayang Kajang"
"Tu kenapa tu?"
"Merajuk. Abang marah"
"Bila abang marah?"
"Suka marah kita"
"Bila pulak abang marah?"
"Marah kita aje. Nak kena lempar?"
"Amboi, ganas"


Oktober, 2025

Sunday, October 19, 2025

Hai Min

Hai Min,

Aku di Singapura hingga esok. Kerja baik-baik saja. Di luar hujan renyai. Aku sedang menghirup kopi. Sekarang jam 1:50 pagi. Langit Singapura mendung —mungkin turut berduka tragedi demi tragedi yang berlaku di Malaysia sejak kebelakangan ini. Aku baru sahaja tahu tentang kejadian seorang pelajar perempuan maut di tikam di SMK Bandar Utama 4. Mangsa berusia 16 tahun manakala suspek berusia 14 tahun. Kata Ara, pelbagai versi cerita muncul, tetapi yang nyata - pihak polis menyangkal dakwaan tertuduh meluahkan perasaan kepada mangsa sehari sebelum kejadian. Pihak polis turut menjumpai nota tulisan tangan suspek — yang merupakan petikan kata-kata dari Death Note berbunyi "Soda boku ga kira da". Satu lagi Zero Day — sebuah filem berdasarkan kisah benar perancangan pembunuhan di sekolah oleh dua orang sahabat. Mereka merakam setiap aktiviti (baca: persiapan) sebelum pembunuhan di lakukan.

Belum reda kes kematian Zara Qairina (kebanyakan peguam cenderung mengatakan mangsa terjun sendiri walaupun pakar patologi tidak memberikan kata akhir berkaitan hal ini kerana menyerahkan kepada pihak mahkamah untuk membuat keputusan), muncul pula kes seorang pelajar perempuan bernama Nur Aisyah yang bersekolah di sebuah sekolah agama di masukkan ke Unit Rawatan Rapi akibat di buli. Pada tangannya tertulis "Go to hell". Buli bukanlah perkara baru. Sekarang menjadi headline kerana wujudnya media sosial. Sebelum kes bunuh, rakyat Malaysia digemparkan dengan kes rogol bergilir-gilir di sebuah sekolah di Melaka. Sudahlah dirogol, dirakam dan disebarkan pula. Sehari selepas itu, kes rogol statutori di Baling, Kedah — 4 orang suspek tetapi suka sama suka. Pihak sekolah memaklumkan kepada bapa pelajar bahawa video anaknya tanpa seurat benang telah bertebaran lalu beliau membuat laporan polis.

Ramai yang salahkan Menteri Pendidikan dan meminta beliau meletak jawatan walhal akar sebenar masalah adalah institusi kekeluargaan yang rapuh. Aku bukanlah mahir dalam mendidik, tetapi berbekalkan pengalaman, aku boleh simpulkan bahawa masalah akhlak anak-anak bermula di rumah sama ada kurangnya perhatian dan kasih sayang atau terlampau dimanjakan. Sesetengah ibu bapa pula bersifat snowflakes dan terlalu melindungi — jika anak mereka di tegur, mereka cepat melatah. Ibu bapa hari ini meletakkan beban mendidik di bahu para guru dan pihak sekolah, tetapi terlupa madrasah pertama anak-anak adalah di rumah. Aku melihat mereka tempang ilmu dan tercari-cari model keibubapaan yang ideal—sesuai digunapakai untuk mendidik anak-anak. Ada juga yang meniru panduan secara membabi-buta dari media sosial.  Sebenarnya, tidak ada satu model keibubapaan yang lengkap dan sempurna untuk semua orang. 

Anak-anak, seperti kata pepatah Melayu melentur buluh biarlah dari rebungnya.  Kokurikulum pra-sekolah di Jepun sangat menitikberatkan aspek adab, kebersihan dan perilaku dalam komuniti. Mereka di ajar tentang disiplin dan berakhlak mulia. Ini selaras dengan gagasan Syed Muhammad Naquib al-Attas dalam The Concept of Education in Islam yang menyimpulkan “The end of education in Islam is to produce a good man”. Pra-sekolah di China lebih kehadapan. Mereka mendidik anak-anak kecil berdikari dengan menerapkan kemahiran kendiri, vokasional serta memupuk minat dalam bidang STEM melalui eksperimen ringkas. Semasa aktiviti di jalankan, anak-anak ini belajar untuk berkerjasama, berkomunikasi dan menyelesaikan konflik sesama rakan sebaya. Begitu juga di Finland. Mereka banyak berinteraksi dengan alam dan belajar di luar bilik darjah. Persamaan antara ketiga-tiganya ialah murid tidak diasak menguasai kemahiran 3M terlalu awal.

Di negara maju, ibu bapa memberikan kepercayaan kepada pihak sekolah untuk mendidik anak-anak malah berganding bahu dengan pihak sekolah untuk membentuk persekitaran pembelajaran yang sihat. Suatu ketika dahulu, Malaysia juga begitu namun kini situasinya sudah banyak berubah. Ibu bapa sering menunding jari meletakkan beban kesalahan ke atas guru terhadap apa jua kesalahan. Terdapat banyak kes ibu bapa membuat aduan SISPAA ke atas guru-guru yang menegur atau mengambil tindakan ke atas pelajar — bahkan ada pengetua dipaksa memohon maaf di balai polis kerana mendenda pelajar. Terbaru, dua orang guru iaitu Choong Kean Beng dan Lau Teik Hwa di hadapkan ke Mahkamah Majistret Pulau Pinang atas pertuduhan merotan seorang pelajar sehingga menyebabkan kecederaan dan berdepan risiko penjara serta kehilangan pencen. Satu masa dahulu, masyarakat memandang tinggi profesion sebagai pendidik — sekarang tidak lagi. 

Salah satu sebabnya ialah kualiti guru-guru yang semakin merosot. Ramai memilih bidang ini bukan kerana minat, tetapi kerana kestabilan pekerjaan dan tangga gaji. Status guru mudah di lihat berdasarkan material terutamanya kereta yang mereka pandu — Honda —memandunya merupakan satu kebanggaan. Malaysia harus belajar memartabatkan kerjaya guru seperti di Norway. Di Norway, gaji guru merupakan antara yang paling tinggi dan dikelaskan sebagai kerjaya kelas pertama. Syarat kemasukkan  adalah sangat ketat dan kebanyakan guru memiliki ijazah sarjana atau doktor falsafah. Terdapat dua syarat untuk melahirkan sekolah terbaik iaitu — pertama, kualiti graduan pendidikan haruslah di kawal seperti di Norway dan kedua, silibus graduan perlu dikemaskini seiring perubahan zaman. Program seperti DPLI dan KPLI hendaklah di mansuhkan. Program inilah yang banyak merosakkan sistem pendidikan negara.

Program ini boleh di ibaratkan sebagai tiket pantas untuk graduan yang tidak mendapat pekerjaan selepas graduasi. Tidak sedikit guru yang di serap masuk melalui program DPLI dan KPLI. Lebih parah, sebelum kerajaan PH-BN memegang tampuk kuasa, terdapat satu sistem yang mendapat bantahan iaitu dasar yang membenarkan pemegang ijazah sarjana diserap menjadi guru tanpa menjalani latihan pedagogi. Guru-guru ini bukan sahaja tidak mahir malah mereka tidak minat mengajar! Dasar pendidikan kita sering berubah tanpa penelitian yang tuntas. Bayangkan betapa buruk natijah yang di hadapi oleh pelajar di sekolah apabila pihak yang membuat dasar tidak berfikir secara matang dalam mengetengahkan sesuatu dasar yang tidak diperhalusi sebaik mungkin. Tidak hairanlah pada hari ini kita melihat kelakuan guru-guru di sekolah sebahagiannya tidak mengambarkan peribadi seorang pendidik yang di pandang mulia. 

Tugas guru hanyalah di sekolah sementelahan pembentukan akhlak berlaku di rumah. Ibu bapa ialah cerminan pertama anak-anak. Ibu bapa adalah role model anak-anak yang pertama. Asuhlah mereka dengan kelembutan, sering memberi nasihat dan tunjuk ajar serta menunjukkan tauladan yang baik. Banyakkan berbual dan bermain dengan mereka berbanding leka menatal telefon bimbit. Ibu bapa harus meluangkan masa  berkualiti dengan anak-anak melalui makan bersama atau menonton cerita, ajarkan tentang tanggungjawab dan disiplin serta kaedah menghadapi tekanan, penolakan atau pergolakan secara berhemah dan matang. Gunakan rotan atau berikan amaran jika perlu. Mereka perlu tahu batas perbuatan mereka dan kesan buruknya kepada diri sendiri dan masyarakat sekeliling. Ibu bapalah harus memainkan peranan dalam membentuk peribadi dan tingkahlaku anak-anak. Apa yang di semai, itulah yang di tuai. 

Semoga Min baik-baik sahaja walau dimana pun berada…


Singapura,
18 Oktober 2025

Wednesday, October 15, 2025

Dental care



Charging Tips for Your Phone

I'm still hurt

When a woman can bear to wound her partner’s heart by texting another man, yet cannot bear to hurt that other man’s feelings for her partner’s sake, it cuts deeply. It feels like being struck over and over again; breaking something inside that will never quite heal. When she falls for someone new, it’s as if all you ever did for her fades from memory. For men, love runs differently. When we love sincerely, letting go isn’t simple. We choose to miss the woman we love because the ache of longing hurts less than losing her once more. And once someone walks away, trust never fully returns. Some part of you always fears she’ll do it again. You may leave someone you love. No one can hold you back. But if you do, leave kindly. Every heart deserves gentleness, every soul deserves dignity. In the end, people may forget your words and actions, but they will never forget how you made them feel.
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The note I’ve kept for years; written, deleted, and rewritten countless times. I don’t like writing things like this, but deep down, I know I’m still hurt. I’m still angry at myself for feeling angry at her, when it wasn’t her fault for leaving me and choosing her own path, her own partner. Why is moving on so difficult? Is it because the love ran too deep or because of the regret I carry within myself?


Batu Ferringhi, Penang
October 15, 2025

Tinggal Sayang Tinggalah Pujaan


Monday, October 13, 2025

Kisah bilik Ara

"Abang kemas bilik kita?"
"Ha"
"Maceh tau. Bersih, wangi, kemas. Kita masuk jab g cepah tak?"
"Dah tahu tanya lagi"
_

"Abang dah restock makanan. Air kotak, mineral, buah kering, coklat semua ada"
"Ice cream?"
"Tu belum. Ra, air kotak buang dalam tong sampah. Plastik jangan selit celah katil"
"Astu la kita lupa"
"Benda senam tu lepas guna letak balik dekat gym"
"Okey"
"Okey boleh percaya ke? Kang beli eskrim, pembalut taruh merata semut datang"
"Semut datang salah abang, abang kan manis"
"Dengar tak abang cakap? Air kotak letak dalam tong sampah"
"Astu belum minum cam mana nak letak?"


12/10

Tidur, Ra

"Menung aje acam orang tua"
"Habis baca Plato, abang baca puisi"
"Puisi apa?"
"Tak ada apa"
"Tengok tu"
"Jom tengok laut lagi baik"
"Nak baca, please"
_

His friend: Do you still wait for her?
He: Every night.

His friend: But she chose someone else.

He:
I know that's why I don't wait for her return
I wait for the day,
my heart finally believes it.
Someone else lives in her heart.

~R
_

"Dah belas-belas-belas tahun, bang. Masih tak percaya?"
"Mula dah"
"Kita nak tahu. Jujur aje"
_

"Jom tidur, Ra. Abang ngantuk"
"Esok tau jawab"
"Malam ni pun boleh"
_

"Bahasa apa tu? Alaaa"
"Cari sampai dapat jawapan"
"Tak suka laa"
"Panjat cepat. Orang dah ngantuk ni"
"Abang alaaa apa"
"Apa?"
"Alaaa"
_

"Hati abang dekat mana? Kita cari tak jumpa mmm cedey"
"Ara cari dekat mana?"
"Abang sayang kita tak?"
"…………"
"Astu tak nak layan kita"
"…………"
"Susah ke nak percaya?"
"…………"
"Menyampah"
"Ra, abang dengar"
"Kenapa laki susah move on?"
"…………"
"Bang. Abaggggg"
"Tidur, Ra"
"Tak nak kawan abang"

Gaduh dengan robot

"Abang, lempar ajelah robot ke luar. Tak faham bahasa"
"Sebab tu semua pakar AI laki hahahaha. Perempuan tak reti sabar"
"Thank you for persistently correcting me ehh melampau. Nak ambil laki kita ke apa"
"Don’t worry, I’m just diligent, not a homewrecker"
"Seriously?"
"Even if I wanted to, I’d apply properly, not steal in secret"
"Baik abang campak sebelum kita yang campak"
"Hahahahahaha"
"Kita serius"
"Abang beli mahal nak campak. Tengah ajar dia"
"Kita boleh tolong ajarkan. Jab kita tumbuk cili"
"Hahahahahahaha"
"Abang"
"Robot je ni"
"Acam ada perasaan aje. Seram aih"


Oktober, 2025

Sunday, October 12, 2025

Bilik Ara

Jam 1 pagi. Selepas berbual di telefon, aku masuk bilik peribadi Ara — ruang kerja. Tentulah, seperti kebiasaannya, bilik tidak teratur — barang bersepah di sana sini. Bantal tidak bersusun, selimut tidak di lipat, katil tak di kemas. Di bawah katil, terdapat 3 botol air mineral dan beberapa air kotak kosong. Di celahan katil, aku jumpa plastik jajan dan coklat. Bersebelahan bantal, satu bundle kertas A4 yang belum di buka (jadikan bantal peluk agaknya). Fail, dokumen, buku, laporan, jurnal, monograf, stepler, pen berselerak di atas meja. Di atas lantai (nasiblah tak terpijak) ada laptop, Huawei Mate, phablet, dua peranti Samsung dan Nubia Z70S Ultra yang masih dalam kotak (agaknya dia belikan untuk aku sebab aku pernah tanya tentang brand Nubia). Okey sambung — 2 biji bola tenis (aku ajar dia buat refleksiologi tapak kaki guna bola tenis. Aku boleh bayangkan sambil menaip, mulut menguyah jajan, kaki gelek bola tenis, tangan capai botol air — She is multitasking at her very best!). Kalau tiba-tiba rasa nak masak kari ayam (kegemaran Umar), dia turun masak sekejab. Sementara tunggu didih, sambung buat kerja. Tu ha, plastik rempah atas meja. Berhampiran lampu meja ada dumbbell (janganlah tanya apa dumbbell buat dekat situ), novel Korea, perfume, facial masks (di bancuh dalam bekas. Dah kering pun). Bawah kerusi, selipar tinggal satu (mana sebelah lagi?). Bilik sudah bersih. Barang sudah tersusun. Cadar, selimut, sarung bantal sudah di tukar. Sudah mop, sudah lap, sudah vacuum. Esok, beli bunga letak atas meja. Sekian laporan dari bilik peribadi isteri. Bertemu lagi di episod akan datang. 


Oktober 9, 2025

Happy moment

Dancing with Ara in the kitchen after lunch. The headache has gone away, but the chest pain still lingers, though not too harshly.

It’s raining outside, just a light drizzle.


11/10

Tarik tuala

"Abang, mana baju?"
"Saja tak pakai"
"Tarik tuala"
"Memang tunggu. Cakap je, tarik la cepat. Tak sabar ni"
"Hihihihi mengada tau"
"Nak buat free show"


11/10

Home for millionaires

Dubai is home to more than 86,000 millionaires, 251 centimillionaires, and 23 billionaires. A remarkable concentration of wealth that reinforces its position as one of the world’s foremost centers of luxury, business, and global influence.

Crypo

The trade war between the U.S. and China has made ETH, BTC, XRP, SOL, UNI, and SNX drop sharply.

11/10

Saturday, October 11, 2025

"Ara okey? Emosi terganggu?"
"More than 50 rape cases are reported every day"
"Takkan nak tanya polis, tentera buat apa kan"
"Suruh report tapi case tak di bicarakan"
"How’s your mood? Stable or up and down? Berdepan benda macam ni lagi teruk dari tengok orang mati kena bom"
"I'm okay, abang"


11/10

Don't ever

Don't fridge your chocolate. If you must, wrap it tightly in plastic or an airtight container to keep moisture and odors out.

Sedih

"Abang rindu Kajang senanya, kan?"
"Ha? Mana ada"
"Tolak macam mana pun tak pergi, abang. Penat aje"
"Apa?"
"Rindu abang tu"
"Memandai je la"
"Bang"
"………"
"Abang"
"Apa?"
"Untung kan…setia…"
"Siapa?"
"She's your home, kan abang? Babtu tak boleh tidur. Kita pernah baca somewhere"
"Apa Ara merepek ni?"
"Astu marah"
"Mana ada marah"
"She calls your name, and your heart says her name too"
"Abang sakit dada. Ara macam-macam"
"Nak baling kita tak larat kan hihihi"
"Ra"
"Sorry hihihi. Sini rindu sana. Sana rindu sini tak?"
"Dia ada suami. Tak adanya ingat abang. Sayang suami separuh mati tu"
"Astu abang yang sakit. Tahan marah astu rindu astu fikir"
"…………"
"Hati rindu astu mengaku aje"
"Ada satu puisi tu tulis 'My heart whispered her name, yet her ears belonged to someone else'. Penulis lupa"
"Kenapa buat kita sedih? Abang jahat la"


Panggilan telefon
9/10