"There was nothing splendid la bang...dia duduk depan, saya jaga budak duduk belakang...he's trying to...win me back..."
March 20, 2024
Ten years ago, when you arrived, she said to me, "Win me back." I knew that when she said this, I would lose her forever, but I still stayed until she asked me to leave to make room for you in her heart. That was the hardest day of my life, but I did it simply because I love her.
Ten years ago, when you came into the picture, she told me, "Win me back." I understood that by saying this, I would lose her forever. However, I remained until she eventually asked me to leave so that you could take my place in her heart. It was the most difficult day of my life, but I did it out of love for her.
In September 2023, she emailed me. I didn't contact her, not even to say happy birthday. I stayed away to avoid causing problems in your relationship. I also think she has been upset with me since you became important to her. She sees you as special, and I feel like I'm not valued at all.
She talks to me about you, telling me all the things you did for her and how she feels about you, as if I don't have any feelings. It seems like she enjoys hurting me with her words when she's mad at me. When she's really angry, she doesn't know how else to show it except by hurting me.
You were quite fortunate. When you sulked, she tried to appease you. With me, she never did that. She simply let me cool down without even attempting to say a word, and I got used to it. When she got angry, she treated me as if I didn't exist, but I never wanted to give up on her. I remained patient.
Loving her wasn't easy. She is difficult to handle. She is not an ordinary girl who can be managed with ease. She craves attention, appreciation, admiration, and affection. At times, she wants to be pampered like a kitten, requiring all your energy and attention so you need to put aside your work.
I didn't know what you did to her. She didn't tell me, and I didn't ask. She is a straightforward person, so you probably know what you did to upset her. When she gets mad, she avoids you. She isolates herself and doesn't like to be touched. Don't try to touch her if she doesn't want to be touched.
She doesn't like to be pressured. If you do that, she will push you away countless times afterward, making it difficult for you to mend what is broken. Avoid doing things that she dislikes. She observes and evaluates you, and if you drain her, she won't care about you anymore. Be careful.
Win her back, my friend. She is a masterpiece that you can't find anywhere else. Once you lose her, it's hard to regain her. If she gets lost, be the light in her path. Hold her hand tightly, don't let go. I have lost her, so I know how it feels. It may take a lifetime to heal, or never heal.
Whatever happens, I always pray for the best for both of you. Don't worry, man, I won't try to steal her heart out of revenge. If she is confused about whether she loves you or me, regain her attention, and shower her with what she desires. Don't lose sight of her. May Allah protect your marriage.
Sultan Qaboos Grand Mosque, Oman
22-03-2024
