Friday, April 03, 2026

Let go of the past

“Waiting slowly changed the meaning of everything. That’s what waiting does to people. It doesn’t make love deeper. It kills it. Waiting drains emotion, and she began to realize that a life cannot be built with someone who is not truly there. She cannot lean on a shadow. Someone who is absent in action.

Let go of the past. Do not keep nurturing what is already gone.”

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A note from my wife
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Thursday, April 02, 2026

Pesan isteri

"Teringin nak pakai burnt orange tapi tak boleh sama macam brick orange. Abang dah rujuk fatwa, kuning terang tak boleh. Soft yellow, mustard, khaki boleh"
"Kenapa tak boleh?"
"Dari segi hukum, makruh kalau lelaki pakai sebab sifatnya mencolok mata. Larangan bertujuan untuk menjauhi sikap berhias berlebihan dan menunjuk-nunjuk. Kalau warna tu sengaja di celup dengan bahan pewarna terang macam safron memang tak boleh. Satu lagi sebab, lelaki dilarang pakai warna yang dikhususkan untuk perempuan macam warna orange selain tak boleh pakai warna yang menyerupai agama lain"
"Astu acam mana Allah tak sayang? Babtu banyak ujian"
"Mandai je"
"Acam untungnya kita bersuamikan abang"
"Kan, dah la handsome, bergaya, wangi pulak, tinggi, badan ketak-ketak, tangan ada urat, rambut lawa, suara sedap, rajin pergi masjid, selalu puasa sunat, pandai main muzik, rajin. DIY pun reti. Tulis surat cinta pun power. Pakej lengkap. Fuh!"
"Tak pernah penat puji diri kannnn"
"Hahahahaha"
"Tapi yang buat kita jatuh cinta berkali-kali…sebab…cara abang jaga kita, cara abang hormat kita, cara abang letakkan Tuhan di atas segalanya. Hati tenang. Akhlak terjaga. Waktu orang lena, abang bangun sembahyang. Waktu orang lalai, abang ingatkan dengan lembut. Handsome tu bonus…errr tak. Handsome tu wajib. Kita suka laki handsome hihihi"
"Kira abang handsome la, kan?"
"Abang rasa?"
"Mesti la handsome"
"Astu jaga hati. Jangan terlanjur mencintai yang haram"
"Amboi, deep"



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Wednesday, April 01, 2026

Hati bersepah

"Tadi berbuka abang makan Ara. Sedap"
"Apa, bang?" 
"Makan ayam silap pulak makan Ara hehehe"
"Mengada tau" 
"How's your day?"
"Good, steady. Nothing dramatic" 
"Anything make you smile today?"
"Kembar baik astu rumah tak cepah. Hati kita aje cepah sana sini rindu abang"
"Amboi"


Panggilan telefon
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Huda

Daddy: How do you know if he’s right for you? Does he make you feel good?
Kakak: Kind of
Daddy: Does he make you feel good about yourself?
Kakak: ……………
Daddy: You're the one making the choice. It’s not just about his presence or the emotions he brings. Does he push you to grow into something better, instead of keeping you comfortable with where you are? Does he make you sharper, more confident in who you are? Does he add value to your life and your character? Where is his life actually heading?
Kakak: I don’t know, daddy. He seems like a good guy
Daddy: That’s something you need to figure out. The person you choose shapes the direction of your life. The wrong partner can cost you everything. The right partner multiplies everything. You decide who gets to stay in your life
Kakak: I thought you were gonna ask if he prays five times a day or goes to the mosque or something
Daddy: Praying five times a day isn’t a sign of a good man. It’s an obligation. Religion alone doesn’t guarantee good character, but good character reflects what’s truly in someone’s heart
Kakak: Thanks, daddy


via Viber
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