For the past two months, I’ve been revisiting my old blog posts and permanently deleting some of them. Specifically, I’ve been removing posts that capture arguments between my wife and me. I didn’t delete all of them, though. I kept a few that I find funny and cute. But those that feel toxic and bring back harsh memories, I decided to let go of. I don’t want to hold onto those moments, especially when I was unkind to her.
Arguments and fights are a normal part of any relationship. They’re part of our growth journey, and there’s nothing unusual about them.