Hi Hana,
Thank you for your email. My inbox was flooded with your messages, and I’m sorry I didn’t reply sooner. I’m also sorry that I can’t offer you the same feelings you had for me nearly a decade ago. Thank you for always being there for me as a good friend since we were in Paris.
Humans have been advised for generations to avoid trouble—don’t make trouble, don’t seek it out, and don’t be involved in causing it. We often break our own rules for someone, but I can’t break my principles for you. I don’t want any trouble, and you should avoid it as well.
You’re a smart woman studying at a prestigious university in the UK and have a promising career. Don’t jeopardize everything you’ve achieved for a man. It’s not worth it. Trust me. Love will come to you in unexpected ways, and it will come eventually. Don’t rush anything. Life takes time.
Over the past decade, life has changed a lot. You’re now in your 30s. Plan your life ahead. Find a good man who understands your career, supports you, and applauds your achievements without holding you back—someone who isn’t insecure about your success.
A partner greatly influences your well-being. Choose wisely. Choose someone who is gentle with you even after conflicts, someone you can look up to as an example, and someone who doesn’t complain about sharing responsibilities. A good man is hard to find, but I hope you find one.
Life is beautiful when every breath we take is filled with love, but I can’t be a part of it.
Your friend,
Robot tua