Monday, May 27, 2024

We can't make someone stay

"Why do people always leave even after you gibe them your best?"

Sometimes you won't be able to make someone stay despite what you do for them. You may love them as deep as the ocean and care for them more than the way you care for yourself and still they'll find a way to exit. People leave because they want to. Because they had a choice between staying and leaving and they chose to leave.

It's a painful reality that we must accept. You can't force someone to stay by your side, no matter how much you want them to. The more you hold on to them, the faster they slip away. You can't cage someone by showing you love them. It's hard, finding someone who will stay despite it all. I know it is. But when someone wants to leave, don't beg them to stay. Let them leave. If they wanted to stay, they'd never think of letting you go. I know it scary how people can easily change when they don't want you anymore. But that's the truth, we can't make someone stay.

Sometimes people leave because their solitude is better than your company. Sometimes we are the toxic ones, sometimes we are the victims but whatever happens, I hope you remember to stop begging people to stay. The right ones won't flee.


(Unknown)