I love to write
even though my official field is engineering. Writing to me just like coffee; I
enjoy it and I love it. More important it’s make me feel relax, in other words
- therapy. I’m a conservative man who think and believe man should not show off
their weakness, not to crying, must be brave, not to share their painful with
partner and protect their loves one.
Years ago and
until now I do believe man should protect their lady by their own ways. Girls
just like coffee; have a lot of types - White Coffee, Kopi Janda, Tongkat Ali
ect. Each type has different taste. To know how to handle a girl, you have to
know what type she is - a traditionalist, moderate, socialist, ect. Then you
know how to handle that lady. Handle doesn’t mean you control her life fully.
Do not make any
generalize to them and don’t ever show that you are more intelligent, vast
knowledge and macho. If you tackle my wife I believe she will reject you. Why?
Because now days girls are more advance than man. Trust me. For example, my
expertise in engine but I’m truly dim-witted in computing. Who teach me how to
up grade my laptop? my wife.
I’m not bashful
to tell you that because we are human. We are not expertise in everything in
this world. Then we need someone like guardian angle to help us. Man full of
ego so do with woman. I’m old-fashioned men who never ever have any idea how to
tackle a girl. My wife had rejected me more than 6 times. Her self-esteem (read
ego) more than me.
I don’t know why
man always trying to control their lady. Let them free. As human being, we
should have our own life to enjoy it. Let them have a little bit privacy. Let
them hang out with their friends, watching movies, be friends with guys. Why
should you control everything? It’s pointless. Trust me, woman know how to take
care their self. They are not kids to be control 24/7. Come on.
My friends told
me that my words harsh and that is why more than 2 times she cried because of
my harsh words. Man is like that. I think so. People change. Love made me
changes a lot. When you love someone you must know how to tolerant with her,
how to melt her heart and how to make her heart beats fast when you both
together. Some of my good friends asked me how long I fall in love with my
wife. Eight years before I tackled her officially, she had made my heart
melting. Until now, I still love her even more.
After all, I can
share everything with her - through my words. I’m to shy to say “I love you”.
Once she said “Abang tak pandai jawab”, refer to her “I love you” that I didn’t
reply. I have four blogs. All my blog she read but she never asked or talked
about what have I wrote. I love the way she behave. Just read in silent and
didn’t give feedback.
Honey, you just
like coffee - always hot and sexy.
I love you.